Posts

Showing posts from October, 2017

Teach your girl that she is not perfect, she is brave

Image
A Brave Girl Stands Up For Everyone. We are raising our girls to be perfect and our boys to be brave . (Said by Reshma Saujani founder of  " girls who code") Just focus on the words which are written above. Our society and we all are just losing out because we're not raising our girls to be brave. We all are living in a society where we often praised our girls for being " beautiful" and "perfect"  and we praised our boys for being " hard-working" and "brave".  We girls are always taught by our society that "our values lies more in how we cook, how we dress up, how we look and how we maintain our body shape rather than in chances we take"   but another hand we always teach our boys that "Don't be afraid, try to work hard, don't try to be perfect". You know it's the main reason that our girls avoid challenges, easily give up on every thing and try to look beautiful while boys who are taught fo

Be Slow To Criticize And Fast To Appreciate.

Image
Criticism May Not Be Agreeable, But it is necessary.. Let's talk about being criticized, there is always someone who criticize about your work, or find faults in everything what you have done if I talk about my experience then yes, people also criticize about my blog post. The most hateful comment I've ever received is:  your blog posts are totally waste of time. "Criticism is fact of life and it can only hurt you if you allow it to" If you choose to respond to people who criticized you, then just handle them with love and kindness. Don't give your power to anyone no Matter what happened just tell the people who criticized you that : "Judging me does not define who I am, It defines who you are." We are all judged and criticized by others because there is no effort without errors and short comings. "The one who criticized others is a one who do nothing and create nothing" Just handle their comments with good laugh and tell them wit